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Friendships form one of the most crucial aspects of our lives. From sharing our deepest secrets to celebrating our happiest moments, true friends stand beside us through thick and thin. I’ve always believed that the essence of a great friendship lies in mutual trust, communication, and genuine care for one another.
It’s often the small, seemingly insignificant moments that strengthen these bonds. Whether it’s a late-night conversation about our latest crush or simply knowing we can rely on someone in tough times, these interactions knit us closer. Getting to the heart of what makes these friendships so special can help us cherish them even more.
Sometimes, a New Friendships Hits That Line Where You Can’t Tell How Close You May Be
There comes a moment in every budding friendship when it’s hard to gauge just how close you are. It’s that tricky phase where boundaries blur. To navigate this space, consider reflecting on a few things.
- Communication: Do you feel comfortable sharing personal stories?
- Shared Experiences: Have you created memorable moments together?
- Trust Levels: Is there mutual trust and respect?
These factors can be helpful in understanding your friendship’s depth.
According to Algerian-French philosopher Jacques Derrida, friendships always have at least these three traits:
1. You can share your crushes with your closest friend.
When I talk to a friend about my latest crush, it really opens up a space of vulnerability. Trusting someone enough to let them potentially judge me or my crush speaks volumes about the level of trust in our friendship.
If my friend can support me as I navigate new relationships or even end one, and I know I’d do the same for them, it’s a sign of a deep bond.
2. You can discuss future plans and dreams with your best friend.
Having conversations about future aspirations, decisions, and plans reflects a unique level of trust. When I include my friend in these discussions, it doesn’t mean they’re necessarily part of my future, but it shows they’re an important part of my present.
If they openly share their dreams and plans with me, it indicates a strong mutual trust.
3. You can confide in your friend about your family.
Talking about family with a friend, whether or not they’ve ever met my relatives, lets them into a very personal part of my life. Sharing stories and details about our upbringings creates a deeper connection.
Even if our friendship is primarily online or long-distance, discussing our home lives can foster a familial bond. By being open about where we come from, we help each other understand what shapes us.
If we can comfortably talk about these three aspects, it’s a sure sign of true friendship.